SPAM - A surprising way to achieve your goals
Tired of making New Year's Resolutions (or the like), then giving up after you blow it (in 3 hours, 3 days, 3 weeks?)
I've been there -- done that. I've said, I'm going to lose weight, quit eating sweets, exercise regularly, etc. etc. etc, a lot of familiar ones, all to wind up with the same result -- I'd give up and say "I obviously can't do this!"
Then I decided to try something one of my grad school professors taught us: Use SPAM. So get out a can of SPAM, put it on the counter, but don't open it. Use it as follows to set a new goal or change in your life:
S = Small and specific (daily or weekly)
P = Practical (who, what, where, when how)
A = Achieveable (is it realistic knowing you the way you do?)
M = Measurable (Progress you can measure)
Here's an example: Years ago, when the dentist told me I had to floss my teeth every day for the rest of my life (or risk losing my teeth) I really wanted to do that. Alas! I knew my tendency to get enthusiastic about something, then stop after a while.
Now flossing doesn't sound like such a big deal, but to me that statement, "every day for the rest of your life" sounded like a jail term! Knowing me, I needed to try something very different -- SPAM to the rescue!
S = Small & specific - I'd treat this like a job - floss on weekdays, brush on weekends.
P = Practical - Who? Me
What? Flossing
When? In the mornings (I'm a morning person, not a nighty)
Where? Bathroom
How? I could do my devotions & floss at the same time
(2 for 1 - my desire for efficiency was met!)
A = Achievable I think so
M = Measurable Try it for a week or so; I could always do 3 times a
week at first.
Results? I've been flossing my teeth regularly every weekday morning for many, many years and I still have 'em! My SPAM goal worked!
You can try it too.

4 comments:
This is really good stuff - I'm glad you're doing this.
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